Sex is indeed a most pleasant activity, but when done with the "so-so" anyway, in time they will be the most boring activity. Change this habit so that sex does not just become routine. Sexual experimentation is the key to maintaining long-term relationship fresh, fun, and mutually satisfying. Delivering what the expectations and needs you will make your relationship and your partner closer. "Mutual experiment requires a willingness to accept (the desire pairs), which will increase the intimacy," said Mort Fertel, a wedding consultant in Baltimore and the creator of Marriage Fitness Program.
If you want to break the routine, 13 this type of sexual relationship you can try.
Holiday Sex
Day off, or a long holiday weekend, be an appropriate moment to carry out "duties" you. Moreover, if in the days before you are diligent to refuse sex from her husband by reason of exhaustion. Do not make any promises on this holiday, including to the mall with her husband. Take advantage of free time to relax at home, good food messages, in-room movies, then end with sex.
Make-Up Sex
Many couples want to have sex after a sudden quarrel and make up. Why is that? Because fighting releasing hormone dopamine, and increases adrenaline, making you and your partner more passionate. So, you do not need to fret if you're fighting with him. Sexual intercourse is done after this disagreement will be a fun way to goodness. "When you and your partner upset, you should be able to forget it. Sex change the momentum according to this argument," says Fertel.
Sex Vacation
Vacations can be a good opportunity for you to relax and revive your relationship with him. "One of the advantages of vacation is that you can renew your sexual intimacy," says Fertel. If you typically plan every detail of the trip, make sure you also schedule events to make love. For example, stay silent in the room until lunch time, or go back to the room after dinner to spend time to relax.
Animalistic Sex
Sense of haste can also be seen in a positive way. The he became aggressive, and it's fun, because you do not know what will be done. For example, the he no longer cares whether you have been stripped or not, or whether the room around a neat or messy, dark or bright. He wants all the runs with experience.
Comfort Sex
Sometimes, you also need something simple, comfortable, and satisfying. This kind of sex can be a moment to pour out of love with each other, or you support him after a tough day at the office. You can apply a favorite position so you both can satisfy each other.
Hope-We-Do-Get-Caught Sex
Ever run into when you get caught up in events where the guests no one you know, or family gatherings are boring? You can drive out boredom by sneaking into hotel rooms, locker rooms, or any personal space. Meet him there. The possibility for other people caught making a thrilling atmosphere, but add excitement to you.
Fulfill-Your-Fantasy Sex
Every person must have sexual fantasies. Once in a while, you need to convey your sexual fantasies to her husband, and see how he reacts. When he was excited, ask what their sexual fantasies. Then, take her to practice it. "Let's try to do our fantasies, as far as it can still be done," says Fertel.
Quickie Sex
Due to be done quickly, you should ignore the events of his foreplay. Therefore, make sure you also want it. If you are reluctant, but willing to do just to please her husband, hm .... You make a mistake. Once you agree, you can do it anytime. Than just receiving an invitation shortly before the he made love to the office, stealing time in the fitting room while you're trying to dress, or slip out on the sidelines of the coffee break during the seminar.
Romantic, Sensual Sex
Taking the time (instead of leaving time) to be able to enjoy sex without haste, could be an opportunity for "luxury". Do it as if you first do it with a new husband: all prepared with the mature, slowly, with a styled romantic atmosphere, soft music, with a soothing aromatherapy. Thus you will enjoy every moment of togetherness that makes the relationship more intimate feel.
All-Over-the-House Sex
Region "empire" is your bed and living alone? Try doing it in other rooms in your home. The essence of this kind of sex is actually more on spontaneity in the relationship. "Spontaneity is beautiful, fun, and exciting," says Fertel. Often, he says, people are stuck in a routine where they had sex at the same time, same place, even the same position. This will lead to sexual activity becomes boring.
Outdoor Sex
Ask the children to play elsewhere, or wait until they fell asleep. After that, it's your turn to "play around" in the yard, garage, or in an upstairs room overlooking the balcony. Leave the door open. Sure, you may not have intercourse while on the porch, on the beach, or in places where there will be a lot of people. Simply by stroking each other sensitive parts of you and him.
Sex Position of the Week
Trying new position provides an opportunity for you to recognize what is comfortable and enjoyable for you and your partner. Who knew you'd never reach orgasm can find a position that allows you to get it? This will make you happy and relieved that there was a way to get pleasure, and what did not work for you. Do it as a distraction to make intimate relationships remain fresh, and keep it from becoming routine.
Marathon Sex
Rain fell not so heavy, but equally in all places. Usually this kind of rain will last long. No other activities are nice to do but crouch in a room all day and curl up in his arms. Come casually as if time never passed. Calculate how many times you reach the top. When the sexual energy you've poured out completely, you'll both feel so tired but satisfied.
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